u/EmbarrassedAd6828

We've been in the ls for 10+ yrs now - both late 40s. m is heteroflex/bi comfy, female half is fully bi. We've soft swing a lot over the years but have done very little full swap - not because of moving slow etc (we both want to watch each other - but because we both really do not enjoy sex w condoms - that and we have specific fantasies we'd like explore/enjoy w another couple or group of people -

We're at the point of trying to make those fantasies happen - just wondering how people have approached finding fluid safe partners , and what precautions you do take - is anyone on PrEP etc.... and have they had any issues etc..? TiA!