What do i do?
Hi . Im a 26F and i fell in love with a woman whos my first girlfriend . I love her dearly we bond great and she treats me amazingly . She has a daughter whos 3 with Autism and tonight is the second time im spending the night with her while she has her kid. ( she usually comes to my place or if im here at her house she is child free ) . But im realizing that i dont like being around while she has her child . Its not that i dont like the child. I am easily overstimulated and value peace and quiet and thats near impossible when shes around . My gf does not set a bedtime for the child so while we are laying down trying to sleep the child is just running around screaming doing whatever she pleases . This is hard for me because she wants to live together someday , but under these circumstances i know in my heart i would NEVER be able to live with her . This is a big reason i live alone and child-less. How do i express this to her without sounding mean or sounding like i dont like her daughter ?
P.S. after today ive decided that i am no longer going to spend the night with her while she has the child .