I [28M] has a mother [60F] too invested in relationship
I [28M] have been dating my girlfriend [22F] for coming up to 4 months now. Neither of us currently work due to mental health. For two months we didn’t see each other on Sundays as we didn’t want to get bored of seeing each other too much.
Context I live with my mother [60F] cause I had a mental breakdown two years ago and am autistic (high functioning)
Fast track to now when we see each other every day. Mother sat me down and said Im spending too much time with my girlfriend, and need to go back to having a breather from her once a week on Sundays. She also wasn’t happy that the prior Tuesday night my gf stayed over drank too much and threw up in my bed and called in ‘embarrassing to do it someone else’s house’. I have mentioned to my girlfriend before about taking a break from seeing each other or even talking. She broke down about not being able to talk.
My mother says my gf is a manipulative drunk. I love my mother. I love my gf. When they talk they are the nicest people too each other. I am going to lose my shit if they keep doing this cause I’m In The middle of trying to keep everyone happy.
I know my gf isnt manipulative. She’s estranged from her family because of abuse. My mum had the audacity to tell me not to believe it completely cause I haven’t heard their side of the story.