How do I let go
Married almost 7 years. They no longer want to be in a marriage, they don’t want to have to be questioned about anything they do and no longer want to feel like they have boundaries to respect the marriage. When the marriage is all they wanted from the start. I don’t know or understand how someone can go from making you their entire world and then one day just no longer wanting you as their person anymore? They swear that there is no one else but that they just feel suffocated and that they still want me in their life but as a best friend. How? How do I do that? I feel like I can’t even breathe, I feel so alone and anytime I try to talk about it with them they just shut me out. Mind you we are still in a lease and will be for the next 11 months and neither one of us have anywhere to go. Idk I just feel like such a failure and that I didn’t love them enough and somewhere along the line they just felt out of love but didn’t tell me until now. Just feels like there is no light at the end of this tunnel. At least there is none today