AITA for telling my bsf i couldn't be her friend if she didn't change her religious ideals.
So me and my bsf, lets call her S, have known each other for a little over 2 years and have been attached at the hip ever since. I am pan, and at the time she thought she was bi, but she grew up in a very conservative and religious household, and her mother is very homophobic. most of our friend group was queer, so it made sleepovers very awkward because her mom was always suspicious, especially of one girl, lets call her A, who has short purple hair.
A few months ago she learned that her family was moving the Oklahoma, and around the same time realized she may be Aro Ace. This was ofc fine and we told her we were glad she told us. Then things got weird and she started to get very religious, which would have been ok, except for the fact she had decided she was straight, and therefore better and "transformed". i was confused because i had always believed sexuality couldn't change, but she suddenly claimed it had for her when "the lord came to her". I thought this was weird but didn't want to say anything because i knew it would start a fight. But it started getting worse, the school year had ended and she had moved, but she started talking more and more about God and how she had been saved. I am an Atheist and always have been open about not wanting religion pushed on me, but despite me asking her not to, she kept Evangelizing to me, as well as other friends, including A, who's dad had passed a week before.
We got into fights constantly about God, mostly about queerness. One time she told me she could hear Jesus telling her they could "work on that later" while referring to her bisexuality at the time(she was evangelizing again). I was obviously pissed because i didn't see how love was the problem, and her words seemed hateful. She had in the past also called me sinful, lost, a fool, and arrogant, for asking her not to evangelize or talk about her opinions about LGBTQ, unless they changed, around me. In our most recent fight she had told me lgtb love wasn't real, and is just lust, and i asked her to prove it. She then went on about proving Gods existence and love could only be true through God, which i thought was BS, so i told her "well Gods not real so ig its not a problem". i think she just ignored that and asked why i was so mad because its not like she was stopping me from being gay, and she just thought it was wrong. i told her that you don't have to be the one making the laws, or murdering people just for being queer to be part of the problem, called her an asshole, and blocked her. now i have multiple friends telling me i was being rude and needed to apologize. so AITA?