u/Embarrassed_Mix_1925

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how do i know if a guy is only trying to talk to me for my body??

i can't tell if this guy likes me or if he js wants to hu. he'll have like actual convos w/ me but he's trying to hangout and i can't tell if he actually likes me or just wants to hu. he started talking to me first and carries a lot of the conversation. idrk what do u guys think

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u/Embarrassed_Mix_1925 — 11 days ago
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Context: I was messing around w/ a guy and idk what exactly he said but he told a couple people, who now associate me with him. I'm also very self conclusion and a lot of the time jump to the conclusion that people are making fun of me when they aren't.

Basically, this guy @ my school started texting me a ton yesterday and at one point his friends sent a vm off his phone. He was like oh sorry they were js saying smt about our friend "guy i messed w"". Then proceeded to ask me if i was "on that" and if I was "wit anybody". He also then sent me a little like mini-paragraph (included below) about not wanting to talk to me if I was w one of his friends- I assume he was referencing this guy I messed w. He's been texting me today to and he's plenty nice but I'm a little worried he's making fun of me and I'm the butt of one big group joke. This guy I messed w has a reputation for saying lies about girls and I have no idea what he said about me, so I'm a little worried considering they seem to be friendly. Am I being made fun of or is he geniuenly tryna talk to me?

Paragraph from guy who may be making fun of me "i was js asking Bc I don’t wanna be talking to u if u with anyone I mean like not like that but if one of my boys is w u I don’t wanna start talking to bc if I do that creates beef that I don’t want or need"

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u/Embarrassed_Mix_1925 — 19 days ago