u/Embarrassed_Theme_14

Is it normal to share social media passwords with your boyfriend/partner(that you’re not married to)?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years, and my goal is ultimately marriage. He cheated on me in the past with a woman he met at a club. We’re now long-distance, and he doesn’t have social media himself.

He used to have my social media logins, but I recently logged him out after he threatened to break up with me if I went to a dancehall event with my best friend and cousin.

I’m wondering: is it normal/healthy for couples to share social media passwords, especially after infidelity? Should transparency mean giving your partner access to your accounts, or should trust be rebuilt through behavior and communication?

I’m not hiding anything, but I also don’t want sharing my passwords to become a requirement for our relationship.