u/Embarrassed_Tune5216

Polite MIL but she is frustrating or its coz i havent told her off yet

I truly think my mil doesnt know herself or her feelings or her thoughts but immediately judges everyone around or totally believes in only her be.

If at all, you keep your views and thoughts then be ready for all the manipulation, sarcasm and tears.

Its been 3 years and mind you, no one can ever believe how frustrating she is. She is low volumed, polite and sounds polished even while fighting. I sound like a loudmouth sailor while fighting.

My husband ends up feeling hurt but does keep his point of view and even from my side every single time.

I need to vent, I vent to my husband, to my family but I'm also scared how I maybe bugging them. So I've come here to vent. I apologise for a long rant.

There are so many incidents in past 3 years that I would probably write in parts.

She stays abroad while we are in India and still manages to frustrate me each week.

I used to share such a warm relationship before marriage; as soon as wedding got fixed it has gone downhill.

Im 37 and my husband is 34. Its an interfaith love marriage accepted by both families happily.

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u/Embarrassed_Tune5216 — 3 days ago