u/Embarrassed_Use3694

So I (57M) came home to my Sub(57F) and wife of 30 years who had done everything I asked and was wet and waiting for me and I ruined it. I haven’t slept much for a few days now and the work day was super hectic and stressful. The combination of those and the commute home totally zapped my energy. I hesitated until after dinner and then the moment was gone. No play. I feel super bummed about it. How do others handle this? I feel bad and like a failure.

****EDIT: 5-1-26***

Thanks to everyone for the encouraging comments. I guess I just needed to hear (read) that others have had the same experiences.