Hooking up for the first time as a woman in her 30s
So within the last week I decided I wanted to try hooking up for the first time on Tinder or Bumble and I have so many questions please help!
Do you give oral without condoms?
Is it ok to ask them if they can eat me out through the DMs first? I want them to but I also feel like it's hard for me to concentrate when it happens and feel bad that they're down there working so hard lol but I still want to try it.
If I give oral how long should I be down there for?
I'm not very experienced is this something I should tell them?
I don't like to shave so should I let them know beforehand that I'm trimmed?
I kind of just want to be a pillow princess and not do anything during sex should I let them know this beforehand?
Do I ask them if they've gotten tested and should I expect proof and should they expect that of me?
I want to bring a vibrator/lube is that something I should let them know beforehand or is that weird?
When you've decided on a time do you show up on time or a little late?
What do I do if they stink oh god I am worried about this one. Should I ask them to shower beforehand? I feel like that should be a given but maybe it's not lol
I have acne scars on my body and I'm a little self conscious about it especially if we do doggy because there's quite a few on my back. Should I warn them about these scars ahead of time?
How should I let them know that I don't wanna do dates I just want to have sex? Should I put that in my profile if so how should I word it without sounding... mean idk lol?
Is it common to find a FWB from hookups? Also is a FWB just for sex or do you guys actually hang out too? I probably would never ask anyone this but maybe if someone asked me I would go along with it.
Thanks for your help!