Have a strong urge to give my man road head. Is it hard for men to concentrate on driving if someone is blowing them?? Is it safe? I would never want to put us in danger!
EDIT: thanks for replies! This is why I asked. In movies/TV it always seems to be done while driving and not pulled over, which is exactly why I asked!! I’ll keep it in fantasy-land or pull over!
Now that I've deconstructed religion, I've finally been able to see sex as something that's ok to want, and I can finally feel peace about the fact that it's always felt so important to me. But I've run into an even bigger problem now.
I'm not an attractive guy. I'm overweight, not tall, not well endowed, not handsome, not anything. I wish I was the kind of person who was physically exciting, who could actually, genuinely induce real desire in people. That much is clear if my lived experience tells me anything.
Not only has that come between me and attracting any partner at all, but it almost certainly means I will never get to experience sexuality the specific way I wish I could. It's pretty much statistically impossible that I'll ever be able to attract the kind of partner I want even once, forget about being able to multiple times if necessary. I'll never get to be physically impressive, never get to do the things I wish I could.
That leaves me pretty devastated to be honest. It's what I want most in life for whatever reason, and I'm intrinsically not good enough for it. I find it difficult to imagine a worthwhile future without it, I don't really like the rest of life much, and without the things I feel would make life worthwhile, it's hard. I've been in therapy for nearly two years now, but nothing can fix physical reality.
So I guess my question is; How (and why) do people cope with this? Though honestly, I'm not even sure I could.
My gf used to be on the pill so we didn’t use a condom but since she’s wnet off it I’ve had to use a condom and 85% all goes good but there’s just soemtimes I’ll end up going soft and idk why it is bc i do be really feeling it and once it happens i end up overthinking it the next time we do it and I don’t want my partner to think I’m not attracted to her
Is there anything I can do to get more used to condoms or avoid losing my erecton
Question for the ladies. I was with a woman performing oral and fingering her. As she came to orgasm she grabbed my hand and forcibly shoved my fingers into her G-spot. It was with much more force that I thought would be comfortable, but I could tell that she really liked it.
So I am wondering how much pressure do women like applied to their G-spot? I know everyone is a bit different, but before I go shoving my fingers up into someone's sensitive regions I want to know whether that much pressure is actually pleasurable in general, or if she was just an outlier.