u/EmeraldShi

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Hi, 33F here, and love sarees, but where to wear them to? My day includes teaching, and workout and then home time.

Whenever it's a get-together, friends wear western so it's rarely a time, when I can wear one. Any suggestions?

For some context I (F 31) have endometriosis, and had two cystectomy right after our marriage. My husband (34) was really very supportive then and really controlled his urges well. Now it has been nearly 2 yrs after surgeries, and my drive has finally returned to normal levels.

Earlier he would say that because of me we don't really have much going on, I would accept then. But now I have had an open conversation with him, even then he says he is afraid that he might hurt me. But I've told him I'm ready.

He always says he loves me and all, but idk

Where is the intimacy. I've tried initiating as well, but nothing.

What should I do? Am I being too needy?

Is it that I've become a bit overweight hence he has no interest?

We have been married for 3.5 yrs now.