u/Emergency-Dot-4162

- What were you looking for when you started swinging?

- What are you chasing now that you've been into it for a while?

- & does it still fullfil you like it did when you started?

One thing I've come to realize is there are so many people in shitty relationships. Some of the people we've met im sure are just staying with their partners because its already been so long.

People have super weird relationships.

In the LS 10+ years and our wants and needs have drastically changed. Im so curious to know how others operate.

Do you delete dead group chats? I want to delete these dead chats I have, but theyre from people that are now friends of friends, that we do see periodically. I dont see the point in keeping them around but also, if we delete them, the others might think wtf.

It used to be cut and dry but things get mucky when you make friends out of LS people. I kind of hate it.

Been having a rough go. We kind of fell out with some friends of ours. We see a bunch of people in the scene fairly frequently and theyre one of them. In the beginning we made plans quite frequently but as time passed, I think we realized that theyre not really our people. I think the feeling is mutual but no one has addressed it yet.

Its taking an immense amount of emotional maturity to navigate this. Part of me wants to delete our dead group chats and totally forget, but we see them all of the time and its just tence and uncomfortable. I know I'm going to get obvious responses. I just need to vent. 😮‍💨