u/Emergency-Fondant939

After talking to my friend who has this certain kind of want while getting a bj, I wonder what it means to the other side.

I have this friend of mine and recently when we were drunk talking about desires and preferences in bed, he mentioned that he always maintain an eye contact with partner while she gives him head.
It made me wonder what actually it looks like for the other side(women). Apart from all this buzz around the bj, I wanted to know what women really feels about bj. Since i haven’t explored it with my partner i would really like to know genuine women side of it. Do you girls really like it? Or its just a starter of the whole package?

I know its pretty weird for an ex to become best friend. I dated this girl Reema(madeup name), we had a 2 year livein and a year of LDR. After that I found out she cheated on me. And we broke up immediately. 1 year went by very tough for me as I started my job. I moved on. Then last year when RCB won she called me out of nowhere, literally crying and wanted to share that emotional moment with me.

This actually reopened the door for friendship but I wasn’t buying it at first. She kept on having conversations with me over few months and somehow it healed something inside me and i could finally forgive her for cheating. Not that I wanted to be back with her but Atleast a well wisher friend.

Currently we talk almost on daily basis, she lives in Mumbai I am in blr, we are going to meet this weekend and have plans to party. I just want to ask if what can go wrong? Is this friendship worth it over long term? If anyone had similar experience whats the current situation?