u/EmotionTypical5610

okok so I have a post regarding aforementioned crush but it was extremely brief and not very long so let me provide more context ( it might be a long read but pls feel free to lmk your thoughts on this!!)

1. ME and him have been going to the same school but have only recently started talking while waiting for the bus with him cause we live in the same apt too so basically the other girl who waits for the bus too is his friend and recently started talking to me. Basically back to reason no 1, whenever the bus would drop us although me and him lived only 2 towers/block apart in the apt he would take a different path to walk back and me and the other girl were curious so the next day i asked him why he takes that way noting that my way is prolly faster, so he said okay and that hes gonna clock/time it and like after checking ( lwk ran even though he told us not to hehe) although technically his way is faster for him and mine for me he said i came first and from that day he started walking the same way as me ( btw we started talking 2 weeks ago irl after she introduced us to each other) even though it adds on an extra 2-4 minutes for him to get to his tower.
   2)Basically one day it started drizzling and like me and him were walking back and i saw the rain and said i prolly gotta run cuz i don't have an umbrella and he was like wait i got one and held it up for both of us and when i asked him if i need to hold anything he said no 😭🙏 and like 5 minutes later we realized it wasn't even raining ( this was maybe 1 week within talking)
2. I told him i sleep at different times and shi and he was like "(insert my name) sleep is important, bad sleep fucks you up" and said he felt bad for making me stay up late and prolonging my sleep and shit 😭😭
   4)I have like light brown eyes ( acc to people) that isnt extremely noticeable unless in light and this guy saw my eyes while we were talking and was like DAMNN YOU HAVE LIGHT BROWN EYES THATS COOL and then asked me what colour his were and was bummed when i told him they're dark
3. I had an abundance of chocolate at home so i gave him 2-3 for no reason ( i did the same with other friends) and like he felt bad so he said he get me a big chocolate on my birthday and kept asking me when it was ( like 2-3 times) cuz he forgot it.
4. Basically i asked him what his mbti is and he didnt know so i explained to him using my example cuz im entp and he said he knows his and said that hes eshb and said it stands for extroverted,smart,hot and the best but like when the mutual friend told him theres someone else in our grade who looks like him he asked her if hes hot( as in the guy who supposedly looks like him) so like this kinda thing is normal ig?
   7)oh oh yeah before that so on the bus back home on saturday last week i didn't rlly sleep well and it was after an exam so i was like sleeping and he signed to the mutual friend to ask if i was okay and thought i was crying and like i told him im fine and he asked twice again 😭🙏
5. He like asked me abt my opinion and like beards and i said imo they look good on the right people and he was like what abt me? and he also called me madame? when i said replying with emojis is dry so like he said okay madame I shalln't
6. I was like being sarcastic and said who would voluntairly wanna talk to me and he was like who wouldnt and i said im awkward and he was like no you def ain't any of that.
   like tbh i don't rlly think he likes me and might js be nice in general ( also i asked him abt the longer path thing and he said "uhm its alright cuz i got someone to talk to i.e me)

soo theres this guy ( 16M) that i ( 15F) have been talking to from last week and like he complimented my eyes and said that they're cool he walks the longer path with me although its easier for him to take the shorter one to go home and he held his umbrella up for me when it was barely raining ( we didn't realize it wasn't raining) andd he told me to take care of my health when i was up super late. All of my friends tell me that he likes me but idk i think hes js being nice ykwim? Idk though so pleasee lmk

Hii so this is my first post and I know this space is for crushes and not really this but I just wanted some advice. So I (15F) had a crush on this guy whom I will refer to as G. So I liked G from like around January to august last year and all of my friends knew about this as well and they kept telling me that he definitely likes me and later on he did confess to me and I told him I liked him too but heres the thing our school is academically competitive and my parents don't really allow dating so after the confession I told him its probably best we don't date for the above reasons and other personal ones and I get that this wasn't nice (?) of me to do but i never told him I don't like him anymore but he kinda understood wrong and assumed I don't like him anymore. Also after he just confessed to me he started sending posts like "Men sleep better next to their wives" and idk if this is normal but it just seemed kinda weird to me. anyways when he confessed to me I obviously told my friend and like she wanted to talk to him and like basically tell him to be nice and stuff like that ( yes, this is the same friend who is now dating him). when i told her we weren't going to date she was probably the one who kept guilt tripping me and said as soon as you guys confessed to each other you suddenly didn't like him anymore even though i kept trying to explain to her. Anyways like both of them ig started growing closer and stuff and she started telling him small secrets between me and her that even the rest of our friends don't know which tbh kind of annoyed me and like if me and her had an argument she would send him screenshots of it and ask him how she should reply when she barely knows him??? anyways the confession happenend in august and she told me they were dating in like october but i was obviously the last person in our friend group to know and she told me around 2-3 weeks after everyone else found out... and i tbh didn't take it well i told her i was upset cause she took a while to tell me but tbh i wasn't sure if i still liked him or not. I kept trying to tell her how I felt and she kept shooting it down with "but is it my fault that i took time to process how i felt" anyways I asked her don't you think its weird dating someone I liked and she said she asked me indirectly if I liked him or not and that she doesn't really think its weird to date someone your friend liked... anyways after that she kept talking about the things he'd tell her like "missing you 25/8" and she told me and other friends he sent her like ab pics and that they were eye candy??? imo what was lwk stupid was the fact that their whole relationship was over text and they never interacted irl cause she didn't want people at school to find out or smth so since me and him shared a period together she asked me to give him things from her like his birthday present and when I would say no she'd say "b-but why... are you mad?" tbh idek if I'm in the wrong for getting mad at her for this or if im js hung up cause tbh although it's nearly been 5-6 months I still feel kinda weird abt it and im still friends with both of them too... they broke up in feb and got back together recently and like remember how she asked me indirectly if I liked him or not? yeah so when they broke up some friends asked her if she still liked him and she said no but they got back together anyways which kinda proves just cause you say you don't like them doesn't mean you actually don't... Idk if I'm just overreacting but I really need advice on what to do so I stop feeling weird when I see them