u/Emotional-Carry-982

Hi Black femcel here, sometimes I feel like the word fetishization is lowkey used as copium for black women. The reality of being the least desirable is so brutal that we used the “they might hate us outwardly but secret find us attractive” sentiment to not face it. like the only fetishization of black women I seen are those who are light skinned and mixed raced and foreign born. I genuinely don’t believe men fetishize or romanticize black dark skinned, born and raised American women. If you asked the average guy if he found dark skinned American born black women attractive he’d say no… you have to look like anok yai and Olandria to get attention