r/femcelgrippysockjail

Women have sex WITH men but men have sex AT women. Bear with me.

When women engage in sexual activity, they are not just thinking about themselves. They generally are also thinking about pleasing the other party because they genuinely want to and because it feels good for them to do so.

When it comes to men engaging in sexual activity, this is much further from the truth. They are only thinking about themselves and their dicks. There is barely any consideration for the woman. They see the woman as an object to simply get off to. A fleshlight personified. They don’t care. You can see this in the terminology they use when having sex.

For example, men say: I’m going to crack, break your back, put this dick up your spine, I’m gonna fuck you up, I’m gonna tear you up. It’s not a coincidence that this language is inherently aggressive and intertwined with rape culture.

So when I say men have sex AT women, I am referring to the inherent superiority complex and indifference that men feel towards women, further proving the point that men feel superior to women and they must prove that in the bedroom.

I feel like everything is a competition for a man, they must always prove their worth and they do so by taking it out on women. The way that men describe and perform sex is further proof of how men are constantly insecure and must seek people they deem to be inferior to take their anger and insecurity out on.

VENT obviously.

It pisses me off so fucking much when I see pretty women call themselves femcels. like obviously we are all suffering under the same shitty patriarchal system and moids either see women as subhuman or sexual objecs and in the end yes women never win but conventionally pretty women will never ever ever understand just how much vitriol that society has for ugly fat foids like me. it fills me with hatred when i see skinny pretty women talk about how moids catcall and give them sooo much unwanted attention like boo hoo how sad for you.

People don't look at you like you're scum of the earth or the dog shit at the bottom of your shoe. you can easily get laid if you want to. i fucking hate it when a pretty "femcel" says that they're socially anxious and hates men and so she's a femcel like the literal definition of femcel is a female incel aka involuntarily celibate. girl You have a fitspo body that fits into brandy maville don't fucking play with me right now you can get laid any time you want if you so want it. You just hate moids which i agree but you are celibate because you hate men i am celibate because even the ugliest stinkiest most gargoylian moids don't want me.

It's not just the moids that fucking hate my existence btw even the women do. When I finally brewed the courage to go to a wlw meetup i was ignored and they all looked at me like I didn't shower for 10 days and smear shit on my face every morning. You'd think these women are men by the way they looked at my disgusting fat folds. obviously only the pretty women talked amongst themselves.

I groom myself, I buy outfits (on shein because no fucking normal clothes fit me) and I even cook and bake well enough to have my own online bakery where I never show my face because I know if I do I'd get fatshamed and people would think my food is unhygienic. But the world still treats me like im a fucking basement dweller who posesses lolicon material or something. Yesterday at the grocery store a mother hid her kid from me like do i look like a convict.

Yes I am jealous. i wish i was one of those pretty women who "claim" to be "femcels" when they have the body and face of someone who would be set for life in this fucking shitty patriarchy. I wish my voice was cute and not like a billowing pig. I wish I was skinny and beautiful and people didn't look at me like I was dirt. I am so jealous and full of hate for beautiful women who larp like they're a foid idc if im gatekeeping or whatever. my culture is not your fucking costume. If I were beautiful my life would be 1000x easier and you have to admit it is true.

I know I shouldn't be so hateful towards my fellow women but it pisses me off so much. It's to the point where I see successful women online and when my skinny pretty friends in real life gets a boyfriend or a job i can't stop myself from thinking "it's because youre physically attractive. if you looked like me would your boyfriend still love you? will the companies still hire you?" i hate that i dismiss their wins and achievements and diminish it to their looks but i also know if they looked like me their shitty boyfriends they love so much wouldn't even cast them a second glance. idk how to stop feeling this way. i genuinely don't see the light anymore. not even weight loss or plastic surgery can save me now. maybe this is a cry for help. idk anymore. i hate pretty women i want to be them. maybe i am the true moid all along.

I usually can’t even tell whether someone is male or female from their writing, so it’s not that these people have a masculine voice in any obvious sense, it’s something else. A specific tone. A specific kind of *** that only exists here.

They tend to show up under girls’ vents and requests for advice, but the replies have this bizarrely paternalistic tone with almost none of the actual empathy that you’d expect when someone’s venting to you. I wish I could recreate it for you but I can’t. I just read it and my pattern recognition goes off and I feel irritated.

Spiritually it reminds me of those *** who say they want a goth woman to ruin their life? There’s an underlying fetishization of the instability that they project onto the person they’re replying to. Seeing themselves as an animal tamer: uniquely understanding, uniquely patient, uniquely capable of “handling” you. Superior to you, they become special through proximity to someone they perceive as damaged.

The replies are always always always self-centered, someone will post “I hate being ugly a guy made fun of me for having this feature” and instead of comforting them like a normal person, they’re in the comments talking about what they prefer (or if they’re trying to be subtle, talking about what “men prefer”). You could say “a guy stabbed me 19 times and threw me off a building and called me a fat whale” and their only concern would be letting you know that, actually, plenty of guys think chubby girls are super hot. They never actually comfort anyone or empathize with anyone. Never “holy shit that’s horrible”, never “wow he sucks”, never “hope you feel better”.

I guess superiority and lack of empathy are the main vibes that I’m catching on to. Beyond that, they’re boring. They never have anything original or funny to say. It’s always the most milquetoast boring coworker coded opinion you’ve ever heard in your life.

Another thing they do but I see less often is they seem to have no concern for women’s safety, like if a woman’s asking for advice the replies will fully encourage her to do the dumbest shit you’ve ever heard of in your life especially if it benefits a man. Fuck 100 guys in one day, fuck your therapist, fuck your dad’s friend, fuck your ex, fuck the guy who sort of likes you because you’re depressed and wanna feel something, go to random strangers’ houses at night, do porn, quit your job and become a stay at home girlfriend to the guy you’ve been dating for 2 weeks, drop out, it’s always some dumb shit that actually has the potential to ruin her life and men telling her to go for it

This is the third vibrator I've bought where the internal battery fried within 2 weeks. How is that even possible? I am so angry and I want to cry right now. Any recommendations for a hardy wand that won't shit the bed so quickly?

Life's fun when all your openly bullies are men. Other women might be discreetly condescending, but at least they compliment by calling my outfit pretty. Makes it even better when you're straight.