u/Dorichowder

Just in case, don't worry! I feel okay about that. Yes it is bad, but it happened when I was probably younger than six, and currently I'm 23 turning 24 in August. Yes, it is an awful thing that happend. But I managed to get myself sort of self help throught "The Lovely Bones" novel and story of an author behind the creation of it. Alice Sebold was assaulted and 🍇ed as university freshmanfreshman, and during the investigation of it she find out during a conversation with a police officer that before Alice there was another girl that got 🍇in the same location. But unfortunately the girl that was before Alice got murd3red. And that was something that helped me to overcome - I survived. Despite this event being traumatic - I survived.

Btw the pic says "Rome wasn't build in the day. As much as mine internet status of a complete idiot".

Whenever I look at Sissy Spacek as Carrie. I do believe that she was bullied. I've gone through nine years of being a bullying victim at school {I have choose to left after ninth grade} and three years out of four of bullying at college, and I heard and saw how girls that are praised and popular by boys, girls, and other peoplellook and act. And Sissy is perfect in both acting and looks. Don't get me wrong, Spacek is adorable. Especially when she smiles, and that is why the moment when Carrie's being appreciated at school prom hits me even harder gets ruined by bucket of pig blood getting spilled at her and poor thing gets thinking that everyone is mocking at her. But Sissy is NOT conventionally attractive. And that is what makes her different from... Sigh... Carrie actresses in 2013 and 2026.

It feels like cast directors's knowledge about bullied girls ends with "hmm, it's probably just a lil bit shy silent girl🤷‍♂️" AND THAT IS ALL. THE GIRLS ON SECOND AND THIRD PHOTOS - CONVENTIONALLY ATTRACTIVE. Not even by just couple of moids opinions but even by patriarchy beauty standards and MANY moids. Even if girls with such looks and would act all shy and introverted - they would be considered sweet and cute. If girls like that will be abused at home - they will get sympathy and not more bullying. BECAUSE THEY ATTRACTIVE.

It feels like Brian de Palma was only one aware of how actual outsider girls act and look like.

Ещё мне любопытно. Если вы имеете какую-то мечту/цель и хотите чтобы она выглядела именно так как вы хотите и никак иначе, но в процессе пути к этому вы узнаëте больше и так например многие говорят что "ой, это осуществимо" а другие что "ты по физическим критериям никогда этого не достигнешь". Стоит ли тогда вообще стараться если есть вероятность что результат будет не тем что ты хочешь, и даже близко не таким как ты хотел?