my sister cut me off
my sister has been dating this guy for about a year plus now. they argue a lot and have been through trials and tribulations. i wouldn’t say the relationship is abusive, but more so toxic young love. my sister tends to be extremely sensitive and can be very mean and explosive when she doesn’t understand his way of things or when she doesn’t get her way. her boyfriend on the other hand can be inconsiderate in terms of being punctual or being on his phone a lot. well, they broke up in the beginning of this year for about a month or two. they ended up getting back together. in the time they were together and in the time they broke up my sister complained about how unhappy that relationship made her. while they broke up, she ended up sleeping with multiple guys and went on multiple dates. i gave her advice multiple times regarding what i think she should do and how to handle her feelings regarding the relationship. i told her it wasn’t a good idea getting back together considering how unhappy she said it made her. i expressed how i went through something similar for four years and that things most likely won’t change and that she should just be single and figure herself out. i said that she doesn’t have really any balance in her life because she is all about her boyfriend and doesn’t want to hang out with me anymore and if we do hang he’s always there. i don’t mind him being there sometimes but sometimes i just want to be one on one with my sister. the last time i gave this advice, she started screeching, shouting, and crying saying how i’m being mean and how this is her life. the fact she was acting so explosive and aggressive in the way she expressed her feelings to me made me very anxious and triggered me into feeling angry. so i sat there and basically stone walled. i refused to engage. i did tell her we can talk once she is calmer because i don’t want to be screamed at. that made her more angry. i let her be mad for a couple hours and then went to check on her to talk about our tiff. she said she didn’t want to talk. couple days passed, i asked if we could talk and she said she doesn’t care if she ever hears from me again. i asked if she meant it and she said yes and doubled down on it. she then sent me long paragraph about how she can’t believe how i don’t see what i did wrong and she said i was a bad person. i explained to her that im sorry that i hurt her feelings, that it wasn’t my intention, but that i won’t apologize for my boundaries for not engaging into a aggressive convo and that her saying if she doesn’t care if she never sees me again hurt my feelings. in return she said “ur not the victim”. she then cut me off and said to never speak to her again and removed me off of social media. i feel like the worst thing ive done in this situation was give unsolicited advice. from my perspective, i was just trying to protect her and guide her in hopes of seeing her make a good decision for herself. i never meant to hurt her. am i wrong? i was literally cut off by my sister and called a bad person who i love dearly and would hate to never see again. how do i move forward?