What should I do about my friend group hanging out without me?
The title seems straight forward but its a bit more complicated than that lol. I am currently in high-school (16y) and have a really good group of friends. While we have had some bumps in the road we have always figured it out and talked through it together.
The issue: My friend "M" has been planing a end of the year party since our 2nd semester which started back in January and I had been helping her with the plans. Had been. The reason I say this is because up until the 2nd week of May we had been really close that was until Monday may 4th. "M's" mom had to go out of town for the week prior and wasnt going to get home till the next Tuesday so "M's" mom asked mine if we could pick her up and have a sleepover that night my mom said yes. So that night we picked her up and started hanging out at my place watching musicals as we hung out, as we did this "M" was texting her mom telling her about her day when her mom just starts going off on her over text to the point she starts crying. Soon she tells me that my mom has to call hers because and I qoute what she said was this, "Aprently my mom dosent know im here with you guys..." I immediately get my mom and have her call "M's" and when my mom gets a hold of her mom "M's" mom starts going off on mine! After a bit of my mom apologizing profusely the gose dead, my mom thinking she lost connection calls back and "M's" mom says that she is never allowed to come to my house or be near me ever again and that its my mom's fault for not telling her where "M" was gonna be then hangs up. "M" is also 16y by the way and has a job as well as knowing how to drive a car. She has also spent MANY MANY Hollidays and family events with us over the past year and a half. Safe to say she knows us. And prior to us getting stated she was scared to be home alone.
So now we have her bawling her eyes out and me and my mom comforting her as her mother berates her over text. After a while she gets it together and her mother texts her syaing she might as well stay at our house for that night so she dose. A few days later I ask "M" if she got more info on what happened with her mom and she says that her mom thinks is my mom's fault. Continuing on to present day, "M" has planned this party and our whole group is going and is aware of what happend with her mom and mine. Now im not upset about her having this party still no im upset that you made a whole separate group chat with our entire group of friends for this party and then start telling me about the group chat to my face after you spent damn near a month distancing yourself from me. I dont know I guess it just hurts and I feel stupid for even feeling this way when I know she just wants tk have fun with our friends I just cant help but feel left out at the end of it all cuase thats all thats been talked about within our group for the past month.
Any advice would be great on how to deal with this.