u/Emotional-Team-3706

Si I'm 46f , have been divorced since early 2020 and live in Canada.

Could some males explain why deep throating is all of a sudden a MUST, for a good percentage of the men I've dated/been with and why it has just been forced in without any consideration?

I don't allow it. I pull away. I communicate. If it happens again, I completely stop and get up/rearrange myself.

I this is after several dates and twice with men I was in relationship with.

Amazingly, the one bf ( with the same communication as with others) allowed us to slowly work myself up to deep throating and I got comfortable. Turned out to be a big turn on for both of us.

But why is this a thing even to begin with?