How do you all cope?
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Hey everyone, new to this community after finding out I wasn't alone in my dead bedroom. I've been with my wife for 4 years and we have sex every 6 months.
When we started dating we used to have sex a few times a week and then that died down almost immediately after moving in together. Once every fortnight. Once every month. And now twice a year.
I know that my DB isn't as severe as others here and some will think "what's he complaining about?" But we're both in our 20's and it's getting to me. I've started to lose some weight to gain some confidence back but it still hurts every time I try and make some moves on her.
I've spoken to her and she says she doesn't know why she doesn't feel horny as much, but I'm not sure how true that is.
So I'm looking to hear some coping stories of how you deal with the jealousy, temptation, and sheer horniness that I think we all face.
Any advice is welcome!