u/Emotional_Repair2144

recently found out she’s now dating this person who used to flirt with her and asked her out while we were still together. she told me I shouldn’t be insecure because she wanted to be with me and “they were not even that cute.” such bullshit. I feel so humiliated and stupid, but can’t stop thinking about it. feels like she ruined any chance at us ever being friends again, which she allegedly really wanted and it really breaks my heart. almost broke no contact because of my shock at finding out. it hurts so much to have devoted so much of my love and time to someone who just tossed me out and went for the person who’d hurt me the most…
if anyone got any advice would be appreciated…