r/LesbianActually

I'm gonna make a really long story short, but basically my wife and I have discovered through multiple rounds of passionate and determined intercourse, that if her cl!t is hard enough (cis female, not on hormones and has an average sized one) SHE CAN PUT IT IN MY... ass. Like just a tiny bit. But then other things happened after that. It made me squirt. There are a lottttt of details I'm leaving out because I feel like I can get banned for saying this?? Lol but I just needed to share this glorious news as a personal win for the lesbian community. Thank you for your time and support in this matter. <3

Soo yeh thta happened like 2 months ago but i just recently remmebered reddit exists so i decided to ask. Is it normal. It was both our first times (both 16f) and for her it didnt hurt for me it did. We used our hands ehem. But yeah is it normal or maybe not?

When I was 15 I got involved with an older girl who had a lot of internalised homophobia. She could do whatever she wanted to me, but if I tried to initiate anything (even just kissing her first) she’d say it was “too gay.” During sex she told me I moaned “like a whore” and that it was “too much.” It really stuck with me.

Now I’m with my girlfriend and whenever we have sex I unconsciously cover my mouth or try to stay quiet. I’m not performing or faking anything, I’m just really sensitive and naturally vocal. I moan, whimper, and sometimes say stuff without meaning to. My girlfriend has told me multiple times that she loves hearing me and wants me to let go, but I can’t get that old voice out of my head telling me it’s embarrassing and “whorish.”

It’s genuinely affecting how much I can enjoy sex.

Advice? :(

I've questioned my sexuality on and off for years. Looking back, I can remember multiple girls throughout my life that I thought were really cute or felt drawn to, including a friend I dated briefly in middle school. As I've become more open to the possibility that I like women, more and more memories have started making sense.

In my relationships with men, something always felt off. I often preferred talking over kissing, struggled to feel physically attracted to them, and felt more relieved than heartbroken when those relationships ended. I can barely describe a type in men, but I have a very clear type in women.

The more I've accepted that I might be a lesbian, the happier and more excited I feel about the idea of dating women. Watching women in romantic relationships feels natural to me, and imagining a future with a woman feels much more exciting than imagining one with a man. At the same time, part of me still worries, "What if I'm wrong?" and I wonder if anyone else struggled to fully accept they were a lesbian, even after it seemed to make sense.

Do you really need confirm or to know that you are a lesbian by sleep with men?. Because I saw this argument in tiktok about this because some people says that if you not experience sleep with men you just isolate your experience. To be honest I don't get their point at all . I just want to hear your opinion this one.
Edit I want to share this argument here because there is a bisexual woman who is being lesphobic and making a podcast about it. I am really pissed off that they are trying to harm lesbians with this argument. Also, sorry for my broken English, as it is not my first language.

The craving I have for this woman is unreal. We have been dating for a year now and istg every single day I want her more. It feels like the love spells from the romantic movies were put on me.
My first relationship ever so everything I know about myself in a relationship was bcos of her.

I COULD EAT HER THE WHOLE DAY EVERYDAY. 24/7, EVERY DAY OF THE WEEK AND EVERY WEEK OF THE MONTH AND EVERY MONTH OF THE YEAR.

Holy shit. I’m sorry if I’m coming off a little too obsessive. BUT! Her taste, her sounds, her body language. I just can’t keep myself in check.

This post is about me fully obsessed with my woman. Thank you.