u/StudentExpress9902

I wanna hear some crazy stories and pls let me know im not the only one w extra or more crazy exes. Once I had a gf and after we broke up she kept wanting me 7 months and in that time she made 40 instagram fake accounts to try to talk w me💀 (i blocked them all)

And recently, my most recent ex (we broke up almost one year ago), she sent me a freaking email😭 and whats more extra, she messaged me on fucking Spotify 💀 (i didnt even know that was a possibility lol) i anyway blocked her everywhere thats why she found new ways to text me

Whats ur stories?:) ahahaha

I feel so baby gay w this question but where do i touch her when she gets on top of me to kiss me better?

I wouldnt go straight to touching her boobies only if she asks me too and i also dont want to get over some boundaries or what she's comfortable to

My gf of one month and I, we havent had sex yet but we do enjoy to make out a lot, our kisses got very hot and intense lately, we even have car make out sessions when i have to leave home bes we feel so hungry for eachother

Ik that a make out sesh wont always lead to sex and its okay we dont feel 100% comfortable to have sex yet, we do keep the sex conversation open tho, not rushing anything

On Monday I'il go to her place bcs, she will leave on a holiday 2 weeks so we'll see each right before she'll leave, ik we are gonna make out a lot in her bed, cuddle n stuff, and as i said she usually gets on top of me for us to feel closer and kiss better, so help me fellow lesbians ahahah

I was thinking of putting my hands on her tights and go up n down, maybe grab them closer to her clit trom time to time, and maybe also go w my hands under her shorts to grab them tights close to her panties (she usually wears joggers jorts)

or on her waist and maybe pull her closer? I feel like im not used to grab someone by their waist i need advice lol (we are femme4femme)

Any other teasing touches or places to touch her while she's on top of me, i need to know them all ahahha

Feel free to also dm me if u dont feel comfy to leave a comment!

Thankies!:)

I feel so baby gay w this question but where do i touch her when she gets on top of me to kiss me better?

I wouldnt go straight to touching her boobies only if she asks me too and i also dont want to get over some boundaries or what she’s comfortable to

My gf of one month and I, we havent had sex yet but we do enjoy to make out a lot, our kisses got very hot and intense lately, we even have car make out sessions when i have to leave home bcs we feel so hungry for eachother

Ik that a make out sesh wont always lead to sex and its okay we dont feel 100% comfortable to have sex yet, we do keep the sex conversation open tho, not rushing anything

On Monday I’ll go to her place bcs she will leave on a holiday 2 weeks so we’ll see each right before she’ll leave, ik we are gonna make out a lot in her bed, cuddle n stuff, and as i said she usually gets on top of me for us to feel closer and kiss better, so help me fellow lesbians ahahah

I was thinking of putting my hands on her tights and go up n down, maybe grab them closer to her clit from time to time, and maybe also go w my hands under her shorts to grab them tights close to her panties (she usually wears joggers jorts)

or on her waist and maybe pull her closer? I feel like im not used to grab someone by their waist i need advice lol (we are femme4femme)

Any other teasing touches or places to touch her while she’s on top of me, i need to know them all ahahha

Feel free to also dm me if u dont feel comfy to leave a comment!

Thankies!:)

Stiu ca e untold acum, oare e ft aglomerat si n parcul din grigo langa somes? Nu stiu pe cine sa intreb, stiu ca s multe strazi blocate, are sens sa merg acolo la date deseara?:))

Eu stau in buna ziua si nu inteleg cum aud bubuiala aia😭 Ma intrebam pt cei care stau mai aproape de festival cum e pt voi? Un chin? Sau va bucurati ca auziti muzică? 🤣🤣 Daca merg pe balcon vad si lumini si mai tare bubuiala de pe main stage ma gandesc, ca acolo se aude rau

My girlfriend (we’ve been together for about a month) went to see the new Spider-Man movie with her best friend, who suggested through my girlfriend that I should come too. My girlfriend was excited about the idea and invited me to join them. Since it was my first time meeting her best friend, I thought it would be a nice opportunity to spend time together and get to know her.

When I got to the cinema, they had already gone inside instead of waiting for me. It wasn’t a huge deal, but it was the first thing that made me feel a bit left out.

When we met, I had to introduce myself to her best friend because my girlfriend didn’t introduce us. During the time before the movie, my girlfriend mostly talked to her best friend while I barely got included in the conversation. I tried asking questions and joining in, but her friend wasn’t very receptive, and my girlfriend didn’t really help include me. Since she was the only person who knew both of us, I expected her to make us both feel comfortable and include me in the conversation.

Eventually I started looking at my phone because I felt awkward and didn’t know what else to do. During the movie she sent me a WhatsApp message asking, “Is everything okay?” even though I was sitting right next to her, which honestly felt strange. I lied and told her my twin sister was texting me some drama because I didn’t want to admit I felt so hurt that I was close to crying in a crowded cinema.
After the movie, they still mostly talked to each other. No one asked me what I thought of the movie or tried to include me. Even while walking through the mall, I was literally a few meters behind them.

She offered to drive me home, and when we got there I told her I wasn’t in the mood to kiss her because I felt ignored the whole evening.

She said she was upset because I spent so much time on my phone and because I told her everything was fine. I admitted I had lied about my sister and explained that I was only on my phone because I felt completely left out.

What hurt me the most were some things she said during the argument:
“Why did you even come with us?” (even though her best friend suggested inviting me and my girlfriend happily invited me).
“If you had asked me to drive you home, I would’ve said no.”
She also raised her voice and said I should’ve made more of an effort to talk, but I genuinely felt like I had tried.

To be fair, I know I wasn’t perfect. I shouldn’t have lied, and maybe I should’ve told her sooner that I wasn’t okay. But I honestly felt like if I had said something at the cinema, I would’ve started crying.

Later that night she texted me apologizing for raising her voice and said she deeply cares about me and wants the relationship to work.

I’m confused because her words say she cares, but her actions that evening made me feel invisible. I cried myself to sleep because I genuinely felt like I was a stranger instead of her girlfriend.

Was I overreacting, or was it reasonable to feel hurt? Could I have handled it better, and do you think she also handled the situation poorly?

My girlfriend (we’ve been together for about a month) went to see the new Spider-Man movie with her best friend, who suggested through my girlfriend that I should come too. My girlfriend was excited about the idea and invited me to join them. Since it was my first time meeting her best friend, I thought it would be a nice opportunity to spend time together and get to know her.

When I got to the cinema, they had already gone inside instead of waiting for me. It wasn’t a huge deal, but it was the first thing that made me feel a bit left out.

When we met, I had to introduce myself to her best friend because my girlfriend didn’t introduce us. During the time before the movie, my girlfriend mostly talked to her best friend while I barely got included in the conversation. I tried asking questions and joining in, but her friend wasn’t very receptive, and my girlfriend didn’t really help include me. Since she was the only person who knew both of us, I expected her to make us both feel comfortable and include me in the conversation.

Eventually I started looking at my phone because I felt awkward and didn’t know what else to do. During the movie she sent me a WhatsApp message asking, “Is everything okay?” even though I was sitting right next to her, which honestly felt strange. I lied and told her my twin sister was texting me some drama because I didn’t want to admit I felt so hurt that I was close to crying in a crowded cinema.
After the movie, they still mostly talked to each other. No one asked me what I thought of the movie or tried to include me. Even while walking through the mall, I was literally a few meters behind them.

She offered to drive me home, and when we got there I told her I wasn’t in the mood to kiss her because I felt ignored the whole evening.

She said she was upset because I spent so much time on my phone and because I told her everything was fine. I admitted I had lied about my sister and explained that I was only on my phone because I felt completely left out.

What hurt me the most were some things she said during the argument:
“Why did you even come with us?” (even though her best friend suggested inviting me and my girlfriend happily invited me).
“If you had asked me to drive you home, I would’ve said no.”
She also raised her voice and said I should’ve made more of an effort to talk, but I genuinely felt like I had tried.

To be fair, I know I wasn’t perfect. I shouldn’t have lied, and maybe I should’ve told her sooner that I wasn’t okay. But I honestly felt like if I had said something at the cinema, I would’ve started crying.

Later that night she texted me apologizing for raising her voice and said she deeply cares about me and wants the relationship to work.

I’m confused because her words say she cares, but her actions that evening made me feel invisible. I cried myself to sleep because I genuinely felt like I was a stranger instead of her girlfriend.

Was I overreacting, or was it reasonable to feel hurt? Could I have handled it better, and do you think she also handled the situation poorly?

My girlfriend (we’ve been together for about a month) went to see the new Spider-Man movie with her best friend, who suggested through my girlfriend that I should come too. My girlfriend was excited about the idea and invited me to join them. Since it was my first time meeting her best friend, I thought it would be a nice opportunity to spend time together and get to know her.

When I got to the cinema, they had already gone inside instead of waiting for me. It wasn’t a huge deal, but it was the first thing that made me feel a bit left out.

When we met, I had to introduce myself to her best friend because my girlfriend didn’t introduce us. During the time before the movie, my girlfriend mostly talked to her best friend while I barely got included in the conversation. I tried asking questions and joining in, but her friend wasn’t very receptive, and my girlfriend didn’t really help include me. Since she was the only person who knew both of us, I expected her to make us both feel comfortable and include me in the conversation.

Eventually I started looking at my phone because I felt awkward and didn’t know what else to do. During the movie she sent me a WhatsApp message asking, “Is everything okay?” even though I was sitting right next to her, which honestly felt strange. I lied and told her my twin sister was texting me some drama because I didn’t want to admit I felt so hurt that I was close to crying in a crowded cinema.
After the movie, they still mostly talked to each other. No one asked me what I thought of the movie or tried to include me. Even while walking through the mall, I was literally a few meters behind them.

She offered to drive me home, and when we got there I told her I wasn’t in the mood to kiss her because I felt ignored the whole evening.

She said she was upset because I spent so much time on my phone and because I told her everything was fine. I admitted I had lied about my sister and explained that I was only on my phone because I felt completely left out.

What hurt me the most were some things she said during the argument:
“Why did you even come with us?” (even though her best friend suggested inviting me and my girlfriend happily invited me).
“If you had asked me to drive you home, I would’ve said no.”
She also raised her voice and said I should’ve made more of an effort to talk, but I genuinely felt like I had tried.

To be fair, I know I wasn’t perfect. I shouldn’t have lied, and maybe I should’ve told her sooner that I wasn’t okay. But I honestly felt like if I had said something at the cinema, I would’ve started crying.

Later that night she texted me apologizing for raising her voice and said she deeply cares about me and wants the relationship to work.

I’m confused because her words say she cares, but her actions that evening made me feel invisible. I cried myself to sleep because I genuinely felt like I was a stranger instead of her girlfriend.

Was I overreacting, or was it reasonable to feel hurt? Could I have handled it better, and do you think she also handled the situation poorly?

Bunaaa! Si-a extras cinvea maselele de minte in Cluj? Cum a fost procedura? Ati simtit ceva dureri in timpul extractiei?

Si daca mi puteti recomanda medici stomatologi buni in Cluj?

Orice mesaj m-ar ajuta! Mersi!!

Edit: Sunt baiat si am 24 de ani btw:)

Okay lesbians I need ur advice!!

So me and my gf havent had sex yet, we r a couple for about 3 weeks now, no one is rushing anything but we obviously talked about sex and keep this conversation open

today she told me she usually take a while to cum and i saw many posts here w this “problem” (i wouldnt call it a problem necessarily everyone is different) but ppl here would say “its exhausting” or “it makes me feel like i cant please her” n stuff and HOPEFULLY IT WONT BE THE CASE FOR ME

but now my question is, if u are in this situation w ur gf what do u do to get her off faster? or if ur the person who takes a while to cum, what feels the best for you? or what brings u to orgasm faster?

i was thinking of more teasing, like lots of teasing until she feels ready to cum idk? u tell me:)

thank you!!:) and sorry for the tmi! feel free to leave comments and even dm me!!

So basically I have this inner critic voice that judges and criticizes me, like the title says

I know its because my dad used to do that a lot in my childhood, i grew up with that, and now in my adulthood i do that to myself (F24), I sometimes judge myselt harshly without realizing bcs growing up w that made it "normal" for me so i think my brain sees it as "normal" idk

So, my problem is that I've healed a lot from being an avoidant, maybe i still am a little bit, like im still afraid of the intensity and vulnerability that sex requires for example, but i feel like the problem is more on the inner critic side (im a virgin tho, bcs ive been so avoidant in the past, i couldnt have sex and i would just freeze when it would get intense without me being able to enjoy it, like i wanna be present and enjoy it and i couldnt bcs of the freeze mode so i havent had sex yet)

its not like i didnt have many chances to fuck before, but i just felt like i couldn't enjoy it, that it would scare me

i always have so many bad thoughts before having sex (if i already gave this this example), like i feel so scared bcs I think "what if i dont please my gf right" "what will she think of me?" "what if she wont like it?" "what if im bad at this?" and obviously i dont want to be bad, i wanna please her good obviously

idk, how can i stop them?

like sometimes im thinking that wow normal ppl dont even think that much before having sex w their gf/bf, but me, i do think a lot especially bad thoughts sadly :(

i do have a gf from about 3 weeks now and we r obviously very sexually into eachother, but im scared to be that vulnerable w her and also cause im a virgin n all these bad thoughts that give me anxiety like w me not being able to please her good or do smth wrong or idk ugh

ive been on therapy like CBT therapy but im afraid it doesnt work for me anymore, bcs i know where all of this is coming from, i cant keep on talking abt it, im very aware.

im sure i need somatic therapy bcs trauma is trapped in the body, but for now that is too expensive for me, so im asking here:

if anyone else was or still is going through the same thing: what do i need to do? what do i need to understand? how to stop the bad thoughts? or what thoughts should i put more in my head? what to tell myself? or what to do? how did you overcome it? what did u learn in therapy that is wise? any advice really!!

thank you:)

I feel like most people make out by kissing, touching tongues here and there, and using their lips. But the person I’m seeing literally sticks their tongue in my mouth and just keeps swirling it around nonstop like a whirlwind. 😭

Is this a normal kissing style and I’m just not used to it, or is it kinda unusual? What does making out usually look like for you guys?

I feel like most people make out by kissing, touching tongues here and there, and using their lips. But my gf of three weeks literally sticks their tongue in my mouth and just keeps swirling it around nonstop like a whirlwind. 😭

Is this a normal kissing style and I’m just not used to it, or is it kinda unusual? What does making out usually look like for you guys?

Okay so my gf told me that she would like more passionately breathless kisses, but to me these are not really romantic, i mean its nice to keep making out w ur gf obviously, but i dont find them sweet

and last time we did that, we were in her bed and i was the only one left breathless ahahahah

Ig what im asking (a stupid) question: how do u makeout w someone without feeling like ur running out of air? lol

And I would also like to know if ur into these kind of kisses, whats ur opinion on this. Thankies:’)

As the title says, how??

I havent had sex in my entire life, due to me healing from this attachment style, its hard to let myself be vulnerable, feel, Id feel that every move of mine is judged somehow or idk😭😭 I dont like this feeling

For avoidants who cant have sex w someone unless there’s an emotional connection (like not ons and stuff, even tho im not judging this) and had sex, how was ur first time?

Could u let yourself feel, enjoy and be in the present moment??

Sorry if its tmi but i dont even know how i moan or if i moan, but the most important if i would let myself moan😭😭 ughh

For me is the thing that id freeze and obviously wont be able to enjoy it, Id think that every move of mine is being judged and obviously seen and i do have this lump in my throat when I think about it 😭

Ugh and also someone fully seeing u, i dont think i could stay that much in that very sexual and vulnerable energy🤡

Help? Any advice would be helpful! Feel free to even dm me about it, id be happy to know ur experiences and that overcoming this can happen!!

Thank u for reading all this! :’)

I’m dating a girl who’s a switch but leans more top, and I’ve noticed that when I say something I personally consider flirty or hot, she often responds with “cute” instead of “hot” or “sexy”.

For example, if I say something playful like “I wanna be in Italy with you and have me for dinner”, she’ll usually say “that’s cute”. Sometimes she does say things are hot, but much more often she calls them cute.

Another example: one time she told me “you’re so adorable thirsty for me” lol.

She tends to describe things as cute that I would personally classify as sexy or hot.

Is this a common thing among top-leaning lesbians?
Or is this completely unrelated to top/bottom dynamics and just a personality thing?

Curious if anyone else has experienced this.

Okay so when a girl says as a compliment ofc that “someones eating pussy like a champ”, i do get that its very good and stuff but what do u do?

i guess im asking how to eat pussy like a champ lol😭😭

like i need details n stuff, maybe u start w teasing, kissing it or near it, slowly tasting it and then sucking it?

if u ever got this compliment u need to tell me what u did ahahaha, how u ate that puss

thanks:)

Okay i know there are lots of avoidants who can have sex without a problem if there are no feelings like hookups n stuff

but i wanna talk w those ayoidants that cant have one night stands, because only sharing their body feels disgusting and are just simply not into casual

SO

we are all battling the fear of being intimate w someone, like being scared of the intimacy and vulnerability in a romantic relationship right, maybe also w some other unhealed things (for me being the inner critic that says lots of negative things like judging or criticizing myself bcs thats what my dad did when i was lil) 😭

how was for you the first time u had sex with someone?? could you be as open as u imagined ud be first time having sex? where u on ur healing era when that happen?

what state of mind u had before it happened? idk

im a virgin and im dating a girl i really like, we are so into eachother, when we meet we cuddle a lot, make out a lot, holding hands a lot, talking, laughing, flirting, kinda feels like we cant keep our hands off of eachother, but romantically

we havent done anything sexual yet
sometimes i would mentally feel brave enough to have sex with her, sometimes not

there are some things that hold me back, they would be tmi but if u send me a dm, i would tell u them bcs why not, i wanna learn to let them go

so yes, i already asked my questions, thank u for reading this! and feel free to text me giving advice or sharing ur personal experience! being avoidant sometimes feel like being in a prison sadly

thank you:)

Okay i know there are lots of avoidants who can have sex without a problem if there are no feelings like hookups n stuff

but i wanna talk w those avoidants that cant have one night stands, because only sharing their body feels disgusting and are just simply not into casual

so
we are all battling the fear of being intimate w someone, like being scared of the intimacy and vulnerability in a romantic relationship right, maybe also w some other unhealed things (for me being the inner critic that says lots of negative things like judging or criticizing myself bcs thats what my dad did when i was lil💀)

how was for you the first time u had sex with someone?? could you be as open as u imagined ud be first time having sex? where u on ur healing era when that happen?

what state of mind u had before it happened? idk

im a virgin and im dating a girl i really like, we are so into eachother, when we meet we cuddle a lot, make out a lot, holding hands a lot, talking, laughing, flirting, kinda feels like we cant keep our hands off of eachother, but romantically

we havent done anything sexual yet
sometimes i would mentally feel brave enough to have sex with her, sometimes not

there are some things that hold me back, they would be tmi but if u send me a dm, i would tell u them bcs why not, i wanna learn to let them go

so yes, i already asked my questions, thank u for reading this! and feel free to text me giving advice or sharing ur personal experience! being avoidant sometimes feel like being in a prison sadly

thank you:)

Hello Cluj people! La intrebarea asta am nevoie de OGs of Cluj😭😭 Exista ceva loc pe o cladire, cu acoperis plat wannabe, un fel de benzinarii sau poate licee unde se poate sta la un date frumos cu o patura pt uitat la stele?? 🧐

Nu stiu cum sta treaba in Cluj, cu amenzile sau daca e chiar interzis, as vrea sa aflu pana nu gasesc locul😆

Dar ce locuri stiti? Ce cladiri unde se poate urca, nu prea inalte, si sa nu fie o problema? Si strazile cladirilor pls

Late night questions! Multuu! 😊