Classmate took a pic of me and it reached my BF.
I was a girl who arm wrestles every once in a while whenever someone challenges me to it, mostly guys but sometimes girls too but rarely. One day, I was arm wrestling with one of my classmates and, unbeknownst to me, another classmate took a pic of me and sent it to one of his friends in another school and that friend is classmates with my bf (basically, the friend and my bf are classmates in a diff school). The friend sent it to a mutual friend and that mutual friend showed it to my bf and teased him about me "holding hands with someone". Me and my bf weren't too pissed about the teasing but mainly about the pic. I DID NOT LIKE THAT. I didn't like knowing someone took a pic of me and was shared to some-people else without being shown to me first. Like.. What?? Am I never gonna know about it if my bf didn't tell me about it? I want to confront my classmate but he's the type to say "it's just a joke, it's not that deep" (even I'm thinking if all these isn't too deep and I'm just making a big deal out of it. Should I confront him? What do I do? I can't just leave it alone knowing he'll probably do it again, but I know he's not the type who'll own up to it. Helpp!