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Had a friend over this evening, I was opening up about my relationship issues and shared that my boyfriend struggles to communicate in real time (especially during conflict). As she was leaving I was being negative about the weather this coming week, she said “you have to accept the weather just like you need to accept that your boyfriend can’t communicate in real time”. We’d been drinking and this was right before she left so I didn’t really get a chance to process or say anything back, but now I’m thinking that was a really rude thing to say. Am I overthinking this?

Had a friend over this evening, I was opening up about my relationship issues and shared that my boyfriend struggles to communicate in real time (especially during conflict). As she was leaving I was being negative about the weather this coming week, she said “you have to accept the weather just like you need to accept that your boyfriend can’t communicate in real time”. We’d been drinking and this was right before she left so I didn’t really get a chance to process or say anything back, but now I’m thinking that was a really rude thing to say. Am I overthinking this?

Hello, going to Aix in a few weeks - any hotel day spas within an hour that you’d recommend? I saw the Crillon-le-Brave hotel has an option for 90 minutes of access, anyone tried that?

Looking to have a chill birthday at a pub with ideally a garden! Preference for West, Angel, Bermondsey/LB, Hampstead, but open to anywhere in Zone 1-2. Any suggestions?

Work in tech, becoming eligible for ILR soon. I asked HR and they said the company can pay for it as long as my manager is fine with it coming out of their cost center. Any tips of broaching the subject with my manager?