u/EmpatheticWhore

Is it normal to not like penetration as much as foreplay?

I really love foreplay, but I’m not as big of a fan of penetration. I much prefer boob fondling, clit play (such as rubbing, vibrators, tongue) over actual pen. I don’t mind engaging in it. Obviously it still satisfies me to a certain extent. And it satisfies my partners. But it’s never really my first choice. I also like satisfying my partners with my hands and mouth, but I just feel guilty if I don’t feel like having full blown sex sometimes.

Is this normal? It’s just not as fun for me and doesn’t feel as good. Should I be worried about my partners leaving me or not wanting to engage with me anymore because of it?

I also think a small part of this could be that I prefer smaller dick sizes. I’m not a huge fan of larger dicks :,)

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u/EmpatheticWhore — 10 days ago