u/Empty-Fix8576

Bf [20M] left me (21F) on the side of the rode while 30w pregnant :(

I just need advice on what to do for the rest of my pregnancy…I’ve always wanted the cute cut the cord, newborn dad holding baby pics, support from my partner while giving birth, etc. but not with someone who’ll treat me this way. I feel like I have no choice because this is who I’m stuck with since he is the father of my baby.

I’m really leaning towards putting my baby my last name bc my whole pregnancy I’ve been alone, I’ve done everything alone, I go to my doctors appointments alone. I also don’t want him on the birth certificate and I don’t want him at the hospital when I give birth…..

Am I doing the right thing or should I just let him sign the birth certificate and put my baby his last name?

Edit: backstory to this situation: we had went to the movies and I wanted to get pizza after but he was complaining that it was too far. I said it was okay just take me home and I’ll go get it myself. Why would I want him to take me when he keeps complaining and is just gonna have an attitude the whole way there. So I didn’t give him the address to the pizza place anymore bc I just wanted to go home and he was getting mad and said he was gonna take me to his house so his mom can talk to me…(mommy’s boy😒) and I kept yelling and crying to just take me home and he said “GET TF OUT OF MY CAR THEN DUMB ASS BITCH” and just left me there. Maybe I was in the wrong for not giving him the address anymore but why complain about it knowing I’m pregnant and have cravings :(

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u/Empty-Fix8576 — 10 days ago