Struggling with feeling behind peers sexually
I'm a gay trans man in my early 30s, and I medically transitioned in my late teens. I didn't have any relationships before transitioning, and since transitioning I have only had a handful of partners (all cis gay men). I've recently been in a few-years long dry spell that I am struggling to get out of.
There are a few things I think are holding me back right now, mainly severe genital dysphoria – I had always planned to have had bottom surgery by now but it just hasn't worked out (and might never will), as well as anxiety around feeling inexperienced/behind peers due to not having relationships when I was younger and now feeling like it is too late to learn.
I plan to pursue psychosexual therapy (but I don't anticipate it to be very trans-informed) and am wondering if others can relate or have any advice on how to get through this. I can't help but feel like I'm running out of time to have fulfilling relationships, though I know this isn't a productive line of reasoning.