Alter Wants to Date Someone Else
My boyfriend is a system, and yesterday, I found out that one of his alters had a crush on someone else's alter.
Now, there is another one if his alters with a crush on a fictional character, but that didn't bother me nearly as much, since, well. Fictional.
This time, it isn't. This alter has actually said "I love you" to the other person's alter. Host (bf) has explained to me a few times that his alter acts irrationally, and that HE doesn't have feelings for another person, just the alter does.
Today, he texted that he can't really stop the other alter from dating someone else. Main reason why this feels wrong aside, I personally struggle to feel like I'm enough for people. This feels like a slap from the face from someone I thought I could trust wholly. I know it's another alter, I know (assume) that he doesn't have full control over the other alter's actions, but this still hurts me, and I don’t know what to do.
Advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you.