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Dear community, I would like to share a few inspiring words on the topic of individuation, in the hope that they may encourage some reflection.

Even though C. G. Jung did not always have the most favorable things to say about Kierkegaard, I would still like to begin with one of Kierkegaard’s ideas.

It concerns guilt and responsibility.

Being guilty is a fundamental aspect of human existence. We become guilty when we evade our own responsibility. This is not about moral guilt, but existential guilt. Since we have eaten from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil, we possess consciousness—and with it, responsibility toward ourselves and the world.

Every morning, we wake up guilty, and therefore responsible for discovering who we truly are. Jung once said that we are shaped by collective norms. What does this mean? It means that individual immorality increases when responsibility is surrendered to the crowd. People shift the burden elsewhere: “The masses are to blame. There is nothing I can do.”

Yet our shadow becomes louder the moment we are challenged to take responsibility for our own existence. We have made ourselves too comfortable. We become trapped within the confines of the ego, failing to recognize that the ego is merely a satellite—a moon—orbiting the Self.

Human nature is full of contradictions, yet it is precisely these contradictions that must be brought into balance. How? By integrating our different aspects, especially our shadow, while also seeking to understand the archetypal forces that move within us. Anything else is merely an escape from oneself—from one's own demonic side.

But everything can be applied constructively. This inner energy longs to live because it is part of who you are. The task is not to suppress it, but to channel it into the right direction.

Of course, I understand that this path is not easy and often brings immense suffering. To burn away everything that does not truly belong to you is an infernal task. It burns. It can even lead to depression, because for a time the foundation of your identity disappears—an identity that was ultimately nothing more than a persona, a mask.

Yet beyond this dark night of the soul, something begins to grow. A cocoon slowly forms and opens, and the light of the Self reveals its first beautiful rays—a true metamorphosis.

The goal is to become whole, and to act in the world from that wholeness.

To conclude:

Do you already know who you are, or are you still hiding from your own being?

Now it’s time to take a position opposite to my own Hot take: Synchronicity is just confirmation bias. I ask for your indulgence, even if it sounds a bit crazy and contradictory. Let’s call it the Yin-Yang method. Now it’s the other side’s turn. For this reason, I begin with the premise that synchronicity has a foundation. It is important to note that this is a metaphysical idea, not a purely psychic one.

To name a foundation: Unus Mundus.
What is Unus Mundus? Unus Mundus literally means “one world.”

That means we need the other side of the coin, in terms of causality. This would then be synchronicity, the complete opposite of what we call causality—it is acausal.
(“…a relatively rare phenomenon, is an all-pervading factor or principle in the universe, i.e., in the Unus Mundus, where there is no incommensurability between so-called matter and so-called psyche. ~Carl Jung, Letters Vol. II, Pages 398-400”)

A psychic charge, more precisely an archetypal charge, leads to a scene (synchronistic situation) in the external world that correlates with this charge. That means the inner world (the archetypal world) correlates with the outer world. But what connects the inner and outer worlds? Meaning. It is the meaningfulness that leads us to perceive these events.

The problem, however, is that it eludes our cognitive horizon. We have no way of capturing it with empirical, scientific data. Yet the subjectivity of an event remains impressive and powerful.
(“The statistical method of science stands in a relationship of complementarity to synchronicity. This means that when we observe statistically we eliminate the synchronicity phenomena and… when we establish synchronicity we must abandon the statistical method. ~Carl Jung, Letters Vol. 1, Page 548.”)

And again, there are many anecdotes and ideas one could write out, but who wants to read a huge text? Therefore, I will leave it at this and see what emerges in this discussion.

One thing to say on the level of physics: quantum events are probabilistic. Can we make something of this? I don’t know; I’ll leave it open.

Also, C. G. Jung mentioned in an interview the relativization of space-time.

 

And once again, I’d like to thank you for reading and for your time.

 

 

So human brains are basically pattern-recognition machines. We constantly look for meaning and connections. We're constantly trying to turn random events into a coherent story.

We only remember the moments that seem to confirm the idea of synchronicity. Classic example: a friend calls right after you were thinking about them. Feels meaningful. But how many times have you thought about that same friend and they didn't call? Probably countless times. Those moments don't stick in memory because they don't fit the narrative.

Still, whether it’s bias or not, noticing synchronicity trains attention. It makes you more mindful and more present. You start paying attention to details, and appreciating moments that might otherwise pass unnoticed. Bias or magic, it sharpens our focus.

I don't want to dismiss it entirely. Everything has a positive side if you're willing to see it.

There's actually so much to write about this, but I don't want to write a novel here, so I'll keep it brief.

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What I can hardly take seriously, though, is numerology—especially 11:11 and the like. Please spare me that, if possible; otherwise, I’ll try to remain neutral.

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If I'm going to challenge my own position, I'd probably bring up Unus Mundus. That's where things get interesting for me.

I can honestly see both sides. The skeptic in me says synchronicity is just pattern recognition and confirmation bias. The Jungian in me says: "Life is meaningful." The Jungian direction has more magic to it and definitely sparks the imagination more, if you know what I mean.

Thanks for reading and for your time.

Hello! I hope it’s okay to repost this in a different Reddit community r/Jung. If that’s not appropriate, I sincerely apologize!

So...

Dreams don’t have a clearly decodable meaning for your life. They’re more like expressions of ongoing neural processing, where memories and recent experiences get mixed together. Essentially, they’re spontaneous constructions of the brain during REM sleep.

Even if a dream is packed with symbols that seem to relate to your life, that doesn’t mean you can extract clear or reliable meanings from it. We tend to interpret dreams based on temperament, desires, and often it’s just wishful thinking. In that sense, interpretations are just another layer of construction your brain adds on top of the original experience—without actually uncovering any deeper truth. It can give a comforting sense of control, but there’s no solid evidence that these interpretations are objectively “correct.”

On top of that, you could argue that the unconscious doesn’t think in narrative or symbolic language to begin with. There’s no known consistent system or rulebook behind it. A snake, for example, can mean something completely different to each person, so there’s no universal code to crack in the first place.

EDIT: At its core, what I mean is: classical dream interpretation is highly speculative and offers only limited insight.

I hope we can have a constructive debate here if there’s interest in this topic. Thank you for reading.

Existentialism feels like a liberating strike—an act of turning away from the teleological question.

Freedom—and at the same time the responsibility for the meaning of one’s own life—is an intoxicating feeling. It is an absurd form of bliss. Of course, metaphysical questions remain open, especially the ontological one. That is delightful, yet I hardly think this philosophical direction finds much harmony or agreement. Naturally, the glass can be seen as half full or half empty. For me personally, existentialism is entirely life-affirming. Only those who truly live their own meaning will understand it. It is, after all, one’s own existential meaning. Passions then become bearable and even take on a subtle tone of happiness.

In addition, it leads to a life in authenticity. From a psychological perspective, it has made me more open-minded. People appear friendlier to me through this focus on what truly matters in life. Rudeness is no longer taken personally. Of course, I remain the center of my own life, yet I consistently prevent myself from falling into narcissism. Every person carries their own value, and in this way, life becomes livable.

It was a small personal piece and a brief expression of gratitude to existentialism. Thank you for reading and thank you for sharing this existential joy.

Dreams don’t have a clearly decodable meaning for your life. They’re more like expressions of ongoing neural processing, where memories and recent experiences get mixed together. Essentially, they’re spontaneous constructions of the brain during REM sleep.

Even if a dream is packed with symbols that seem to relate to your life, that doesn’t mean you can extract clear or reliable meanings from it. We tend to interpret dreams based on temperament, desires, and often it’s just wishful thinking. In that sense, interpretations are just another layer of construction your brain adds on top of the original experience—without actually uncovering any deeper truth. It can give a comforting sense of control, but there’s no solid evidence that these interpretations are objectively “correct.”

On top of that, you could argue that the unconscious doesn’t think in narrative or symbolic language to begin with. There’s no known consistent system or rulebook behind it. A snake, for example, can mean something completely different to each person, so there’s no universal code to crack in the first place.

I hope we can have a constructive debate here if there’s interest in this topic. Thank you for reading.