How do all of you feel about revealing clothes?
Boyfriends of Reddit, I have a question that is very simple but always has complications added to it. For your POV, I am dating my girlfriend and so far there has never been a clash or argument regarding the clothing that she wears until one day we were having this conversation and I told her that what one of her friends was wearing was too revealing and if she would wear it, especially if is not with me (because we would be in LDR) then I would be bothered about it.
We were trying to have a peaceful conflict resolution but both decided to read upon it more and ask people anonymously about what they feel.
Her basic argument: Her intentions are right. So she should wear whatever she is comfortable with, not what others expect of her or in fear of what others would think.
My basic argument: I don't have any issues until it is too revealing. And if it bothers me then why would she continue to do something that does bother me.
She has told me that she understands where I come from, but this is a core thing for her where she does not want to compromise or find a middle ground. She also said though she does not want to, she will because it's an equally sensitive issue for me. So far, she's been very understanding in all of our fights so the conflict resolution has always been peaceful except once or twice.
I want to know from the boyfriends of Reddit to wonder how I should go about it? I don't want any of those misogynist comments. I need a real brother to hand me out a sensible opinion