u/Entire-Chard-7480

Does anyone know of a Gay male Strip club that I can have my friend’s Bachelor Party at? We want like actual strippers to get lap dances (the cliche, I know!) not just a bar/club that has go-go dancers.

Online all the male strip clubs I saw in NYC seemed for women and bachelorette parties, so trying to find a gay one.

Saw a guy on Hinge who feels exactly my type. Didn’t get a chance to match, and I don’t hinge always shows you guys that like you unless you’re paying for it. His name is super unique, so I found him on LinkedIn (only social I use). Now I’m tempted to message him… but I don’t want to come off creepy.

If I don’t match with him what’s a short, normal message that would actually get your attention in this situation?
Be honest—would you find this flattering or weird?