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can we be a little more respectful when at the clubs please

I went to Rawhide (not my first time there) with some friends last night and had a great time. So many hot guys, good music, amazing vibes. BUT the amount of pushing to make your way through is ridiculous. Some guys hug and dance together which is beautiful but do you have to dig your elbows into everyone next to you, and then pretend like you’re the victim when you get a look or or asked to have some level of spatial awareness?

And the guys who push through the crowds in lines of 6 people all holding each other like you’re afraid to get lost in a 400 square foot space… a simple tap on someones shoulder and an “excuse me” or “sorry bro can i pass” wouldn’t hurt. You know what does hurt tho? Getting shoved and pushed around by people trying to cut through, and being stepped on. Other people are also trying to get through, and I don’t want to be separated from my friends any more than you do but instead of allowing people to pass comfortably y’all are trampling your way forward like you just found out someone is handing out free poppers in the next room.

For that matter, guys who firmly plant their feet and don’t shift a little when someone is trying to pass, can you move over like 2 inches please so guys arent tripping over you to get past?

These bars get packed and its a tight space. We are all a little intoxicated and trying to find our friends or find some D. Showing a little respect to each other throughout the night so we all can have a great time isn’t so difficult and would go a long way to making sure everyone is having a good time without having to come home bruised.

Thanks.
End rant.

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