I found a flaw and kept it to myself, but I need to let it out
A pattern is becoming more clear in this sub and many more recently.
After analyzing this subs and many more subs themes and post history, what I've concluded after a period of conclusioning, is something unexpected.
You can have full trust in the fact that my conclusion is concrete, I allowed everything to settle for a lengthy amount of time.
And honestly, my findings aren't ideal, but it's nothing that can't be undone or patched.
Most posts are made in the form of a question, usually directly related in some way to curiousity from the poster.
That's obvious to some, given the nature of most subs.
Now that's not a cause for concern, but what is concerning to me is the lack of balance.
We get asked endless questions, or for advice, but they don't ask any back to us, or give advice back.
As we all know, a relationship is meant to be 50/50.
We won't point fingers, or blame, but if anyone were to do so, don't point at me.
I've been in many of those (Relationships) I mentioned.
So I'm knowledgeable on this subject you might say, if I were to allow a self compliment, I would also say this.
The reason these relations as we can call it for short come to an end is always a lack of balance, not just physical balance, as I have above average balance on my feet, but mental balance.
So don't be one sided.
Let both normal human beings and people who ask us, take their slice of the spotlight.
I must confess, I've known all this for a long time now, and purposefully didn't share it with the common folk.
The only comments id be comfortable receiving is subtle praise and compliments, which I'll humbly acknowledge.
If you feel as though you can't give me advice, or feel intimidated by my perceived intelligence, that's completely understandable, a thumbs up would be adequate.
How come this trend is only now becoming visible to keen and sharp minds such as mine, not to toot my own horn.
Is it just a rare perspective only some people bear the weight of?
Don't answer those questions, they're to make you question it yourself.
I feel lighter now, mentally and not physically as we talked about.
Thank you for reading, no gifts will be accepted at this time.
Edit: Comments are still allowed if anyone is confused but feels the need to leave some form of praise to the author. (Myself)