Unsuccessful searches Due to every Reason
I am searching for someone to wed. A little Background would Justify.
We are Bengali & I was brought up in Delhi and then in Noida, mostly for my Adolescence. During that, My parents started everything from scratch as we had no plan of ever going back to our native place. Then I went for Engineering from AIEEE in a Good Private Engineering College. After that, I prepared for GATE/ CAT for two years. I got admitted in NPTI. After my PGDM, I got a job in Power Sector & I have grown professionally.
In between all, I had no time to think about dating or courting someone for marriage. Now, that I have started, after Father passed away, we are facing multiple rejections for XYZ reason.
Reasons are Kundli not matching, Me being Manglik, My pay is less, I gained bit of weight. I was engaged with someone earlier but broke it off due to distrust and disrespect from Bride's Family.
Now, I am clueless. This has more than 3 yrs.
My question is:
1.Will there be an end to this search? Will this search yield a result which it was meant for? We have invested time,money and resources a lot.
How to sift through those prospects who are not serious or don't find me suitable for their ward or they want to insult without any reason? Yes, we talk. I myself have talked with lot of women but most of them are not clear about the reason they want to get married.
My demands are not much, as I am looking only for a working girl who can live with us. No Dowry, No horoscope. Only a girl with good character and someone to build a Home with. That feels like a task in itself. Why do I find it hard or am I asking too much?
Probably, a bit of rant, but I am clueless and I am really serious about this.