AITA for being upset that my girlfriend keeps setting me up to see if I'll fail?
I have been dating my girlfriend for almost two years and I'm getting really tired of feeling like Im constantly being tested.
At first it was little stuff. She would tell me some guy at work was flirting with her and then watch my reaction. Then a few months ago she actually asked one of her friends to message me and see if I would flirt back.
She said it was because she wanted to know she could trust me.
Then last weekend she took it even further. She said she had to work late and could not meet me for dinner. Later that night one of her friends showed up at the bar where I was with some friends and started openly flirting with me.
I shut it down and left.
The next morning my girlfriend admitted she had asked her friend to do it.
She said I passed another test.
Thats the part that really bothers me. Not even the flirting itself. She basically set up a situation where she expected me to fail just so she could feel better about whether Im loyal.
She says she is scared of being cheated on because of what happened in her past. I understand that. But how many tests am I supposed to pass before she actually trusts me?
Now she is saying Im overreacting because technically nothing bad happened.
AITA for seriously considering ending the relationship over this?