I (26f) am married with my husband (32m) for 5 years. How do i fix our sexual life?
As the title says. I am married to my husband (32m) for almost 5 years. We differ a lot in sexual taste, i need more but he is happy. We talked about this alot and it always comes down to the same. He can't match my needs, he is honest about that and he honestly says that its not in his system. I respect that, i dont love him less because of that.
For the last 2- 3 months i feel more and more sexually frustrated, he notices and feels incredible guilty. we talked about an open marriage but he isn't sure that is something that he wants. Again i have respect for that. But i feel like i am walking on my toes when its about sex. We have sex about 2-4 times a week normally which should be enough but everytime i am left unsatisfied or on the edge, its even worse now. My body shakes and i almost feel like a sex addict because of it.
Does someone have advise on this? On an open marriage or maybe something completely diffrent. I am not the cheating type and i will never do that but this cant continue for longer or i will go out of my mind.
Ps soory for my grammar english is not my first language
Edit: Most of the time i dont reach an orgasm or i am at the edge but then he is finished and when he is finished his desire is non existent. He doesn't mind an open relationship, he would love to he is curious about how quick he could get a girl (ego thing) which i honestly love about him. He just doesn't like the thought of me having sex with someone else