u/Equal-Armadillo-7182

I’m a girl in my early thirties, I have only been in one relationship (we were more like friends) and it ended in civil way, it’s been 6 years I haven’t met anyone. It’s been constant cycle of me meeting someone they are infatuated, they want to talk to me everyday every hour, we hang out for at least a month and what the deed is done the initial energy they have it’s gone and it turns into physical. I know i play part in this but every time i feel like i met the right person i’m proven wrong.
I’m celibate now but no one want to take me out, or get to know me. I know this is probably for the best. I just sometimes hate that men enjoy my company, looks, and then they show me that the only thing matters to them is physical touch. I got to the conclusion that maybe just maybe love isn’t destined for everyone. Maybe my share is to have great friends that truly love me. But not a man.
What am i doing wrong? How do people meet their significant others?