u/Equal-Chemistry3354

Lately I've been going through a lot of things especially being known as gay, and find myself wondering if even presenting as gay is even worth it. I'm 26/m and it just feels like I'm suppose to find this Identity or personal interests that allow me to stay grounded especially working. Am I only known as a gay person? Why can't I be known as an enthusiast of art, and ok my free time I enjoy watching porn to understand it and well to see the overall industry of it just cause sex has always been a part of my life, and recently I've been wondering if I should be more of a bottom or more of a top honestly it's weird trying to be myself without be seen as someone to gives or takes idk. Anyways this is just a vent...