AITA for expecting help with my chores?
My girlfriend and I live together and we split the chores evenly. For most of them we have set chores we do then for things like doing the dishes we take it it’ll turns so I’ll do one day and she’ll do the next. There have been times when she’s been feeling low or feeling ill and has asked me to do the dishes for her and I have.
This week I burnt my hand and it is now bandaged. I can’t get the bandages wet and my hand I’m in pain whenever I move my hand, especially when I bend my fingers due to the location of the burn. The doctor has said I’ll have the bandages on for two weeks. I asked my gf if she could do the dishes until the bandages are off since I’m not able to do them.
She said I should look for a way I can still do them and ghat I shouldn’t be expecting her to do them for two weeks. I pointed out I can hardly help not being able to use my hand and said it wasn’t much I was asking for but she just said she shouldn’t have to do them for weeks.
I said partners are supposed to support each other and mentioned I’ve done the same for her multiple times but she just said I was guilt tripping her. I mentioned that she’s acting selfish and should want to help me.
AITA for expecting help?