Alsalam alaykum
Wallah for the past 6 years I’ve always seen my wife as the perfect angel who won’t harm a fly . Never in my existence would i believe that she would talk to her sisters about me and refer to me as a dog to them. This completely shattered my soul and i can’t even confront her about it because i snooped through her phone because she was acting very suspicious with it.
I can’t look at her the same way. I don’t know what to do and it’s driving me insane . I’m always anxious when i see her using her phone thinking what she might be saying about me .
The text was “ ever since his father the dog gave him the iPad , he won’t listen anymore “ she was talking about me and our son
How can i get passed this ?
EDIT: she was writing it in Arabic . In Arabic we use dog as an offensive term, it was not a typo she was just frustrated that our son doesn’t listen because i bought him an iPad . She has never said anything even close to that to my face . Always lovey dovey and emotional and sweet