OA lang ba ako for being bothered that my bf can't 'finish'?
I (28F) and my boyfriend (32) have been together for over 2 years now. We're always busy with work and traveling kaya we can't always get intimate lalo na't most of the time we're both tired and would just rather cuddle and talk. He's a wonderful man and he treats me well and it's going pretty serious between the two of us. The sex used to be hot and steamy and he finishes most of the time (we practice safe sex) meron din times dati na he's had a problems with getting hard or getting off — like I'm the only one that finishes and he doesn't or couldn't. I used to think he's just tired from work because sa true din naman he's very busy with work and he barely sleeps so I used to make excuses for him and tell him it's okay you're just tired kasi he'd apologize for not finishing matapos kong gawin ang lahat LOL I can see his struggle too sometimes. Pero lately, parang napapadalas na. And it's always the same excuse — he's tired. I know, I really try to understand. This is something we're supposed to enjoy together but a lot of times he can only get off when he does it himself and he'd ask me to do something sexy for him so he can finish. But clearly, I'm at a point na it's getting to me na. I'm starting to feel insecure for some reason. OA lang ba ako for overthinking or am I really the problem and that I'm not that attractive to him anymore and napipilitan na lang sya now? Also, I myself isn't very sexual but there are always going to be days that I'm in the mood for it and ganun din sya. This isn't my first relationship and this has never happened before in my previous relationships so I really don't know what to feel.