u/EquivalentAd5857

Someone here had recently posted looking for advice about being a secondary in a V, and wanting to spend more time with their hinge. One comment really resonated with me about “thinking of getting out what you are putting into the relationship”. I thought I saved it but didn’t. Oops. I know this is vague and there’s a lot to read through. Just thought I’d give it a shot. Thanks y’all!