u/EquivalentWitness165

There's a girl I've been noticing at my gym for about a year. Since day one I've been attracted to her and over time I felt like there was something there, repeated eye contact and little moments that stuck with me.

Two specific examples. One time we arrived at the gym at the same time and as we approached the door she rushed ahead and held both doors open for me with urgency, like she really wanted to do something nice for me. Another time I finished my set at the squat rack, turned around, and we basically ran into each other. We both completely froze and just stared at each other for a moment.

I finally approached her last week while she was resting between sets. I led with a handshake and said I feel like we see each other here all the time, what's your name. She immediately lit up with the biggest smile, dimples and everything, told me her name and asked for mine back. I then asked her how come I haven’t seen her in a couple weeks and she told me she went on a trip but anyways. I told her I’ve always wanted to say something but found it a little intimidating. She laughed and said it was her RBF. I told her it wasn't her it was me. We shook hands again at the end and wished each other a good workout. It felt like the vibe was good it felt like she was feeling me so I guess what I’m trying to ask is.

Do you think she's interested? Do you think I came across as interested in her? And would it be weird to ask for her number the next time I see her?

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u/EquivalentWitness165 — 24 days ago

There's a girl I've been noticing at my gym for about a year. Since day one I've been attracted to her and over time I felt like there was something there, repeated eye contact and little moments that stuck with me.

Two specific examples. One time we arrived at the gym at the same time and as we approached the door she rushed ahead and held both doors open for me with urgency, like she really wanted to do something nice for me. Another time I finished my set at the squat rack, turned around, and we basically ran into each other. We both completely froze and just stared at each other for a moment.

I finally approached her last week while she was resting between sets. I led with a handshake and said I feel like we see each other here all the time, what's your name. She immediately lit up with the biggest smile, dimples and everything, told me her name and asked for mine back. I then asked her how come I haven’t seen her in a couple weeks and she told me she went on a trip but anyways. I told her I’ve always wanted to say something but found it a little intimidating. She laughed and said it was her RBF. I told her it wasn't her it was me. We shook hands again at the end and wished each other a good workout. It felt like the vibe was good it felt like she was feeling me so I guess what I’m trying to ask is.

Do you think she's interested? Do you think I came across as interested in her? And would it be weird to ask for her number the next time I see her?

reddit.com
u/EquivalentWitness165 — 24 days ago