Dating & Trauma
I started developing feelings a friend that just recently went through a pretty rough course. They're definitely has been platonic of mutual interest but when I asked for clarification because I don't want to assume they said that they did not want to have another relationship. They then shared about all the stress and Trauma this divorce has put them through. I completely understand having no interest in relationships because I went through a really rough separation several years back. I was lucky though that even though it was a long-term relationship and pretty devastating we were never legally married so there wasn't the extra stress of dealing with lawyers. I also would 100% be happy just being platonic friends. I truly care about her and just want her to be happy.
The question(s): For me consent is very important and she did say that she has no interest in relationships. Do I just carry on as normal and ignore things that seem flirty or signs of Interest? Not that I have any other romantic prospects but should I actively move on, or just give it time for her to process the stress of getting the divorce finalized and see where it goes from there. Also, for those that have dealt with divorces and getting full custody what is the best way to support a single mom?