33M virgin need advice marrying a 29F (S)experienced girl
Need advice on marrying an (s)experienced girl!
Using my incognito account for this embarrassing query!!!
I am going to get married to this girl. We've had the communication about her past I (33M) am virgin and she (29F) she's had sex with her ex fiance. The guy in her words later became toxic and guys' family unsupportive of her work hence she broke it off !
Now onto her sexual past, he was her first and apparently she enjoyed those encounters thoroughly and talks very fondly of them.
I've asked her point blank if she's over him, to which she's said yes.. And that the guy later turned into an asshole !!! Here I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt. I'm okay with the sexual past too.
But now i am worried when we do the deed I'll be subject to comparison and since I'm not that physically fit a bit fat, I'd never be able to satisfy her. She said apparently the guy had great self-control and could hold an erection for 40-60 min before finishing and they tried different positions!!! I am worried I'll never be that great.!! Will there be chances of affairs and all if there is no sexual satisfaction on her end??
And till now I've gone by with porn and masturbation where my motivation was to get the dopamine hit and not last long!!! So I'm fully not confident in my abilities!!!
Am I overthinking????