I'm thinking of coming out just don't know what to do.
I am a 35m new to using reddit and just coming out of a 15 year relationship with 37f. I, not having spent much time in my life single and basically none of my adult life I never really got to think about who I really am. I spent most of my life around my family who have expressed their dislike for anything of that nature. But now that I'm single and have had time to look at me and what I want from life and how I want to move forward I have realized that I'm gay. I look back at all of my past relationships and they have all been with women. But I have always been more attractive to men. I have decided to be me and be free. I have told my kids and they are supportive and don't mind at all. (Which I love) But have not told anyone. My ex has her suspicions but I have not confirmed them. I am afraid she will out me to my family. I am not sure if I'm ready for them to know and not sure if I should care what they think. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. THANKS!