u/Etherial_external

i’ll start!!

My dad has literally threatened my life saying he’d beat the fuck out of me and watch me bleed out 🩷🩷 (bcz i got a piercing)

I don’t know if it’s just me, but my parents are always telling me that “your friends are not gonna be there for you when this happens.. when that happens” when I ask to go out with my friends. mind you, I am barely allowed to leave this house, I only started getting a little bit of freedom this year before that I was not allowed to go anywhere, and my parents would basically guilt trip me and say I was ditching my family and all that. i don’t even like being at home. I feel like a slave, I’m just bullied and beat the fuck up for every single little thing that I do so yeah actually i do prefer my friends 😂😂

my dad is a fucking lazy abusive piece of shit. i clean and cook every single fucking day while balancing work and school (thankfully it’s summer break now) and then my said job that i got job like a month ago ive been paying for EVERYTHING and i don’t mean like clothes and snacks for me/my sibling or whatever. no no i mean his fucking gas, my brothers haircut, food, sometimes he’ll just ask me to send $100 randomly and if i don’t he’ll genuinely make my life a living hell. It’s genuinely so unfair because i’ve not spend a dime on myself. I wanna save up for university but he takes everything. Before i started working, I remember I did this volunteering thing for two days( two hours each )and the person that was in charge of the volunteer was so nice and gave everybody $50. Guess how much I had for myself out of that $50… 5 fuckign dollars!!! HE TOOK EVERYTHINT. (p.s: he’s fucking jobless and spent all his money in some stupid nigerian business that’s never working out) Apart from the money thing i’m the only one who takes care of my brother. I might as well be his mother and father because i cook, buy him clothes, help with his homework while my dad sits there like a loser at home doing NOTHING but swearing he’s the man of the house 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂 the day i go crazy in this house..

i don’t know how i can express this pure HATRED i have for this nga. He’s emotionally, verbally, and of course physically abusive. I’ve never seen this man clean the house one time in my life. He thinks he’s too big, like the “father” of the house (As a father shouldn’t you be providing for the family and protecting ur family? news flash he doesn’t do either). He thinks he shouldn’t be cooking, washing dishes, sweeping, mopping, cleaning the bathroom, doing none of that. I’m the one doing all this mind you since I was 10 years old, even probably younger than that. I have to serve him every time. This nga won’t get up and get his food even after not doing anything the entire fucking day cuz this nga does not have a job, his work contract ended like last year and now he has made no efforts to try to look for another job. All he does is complain and complain about how he’s broke… can barely afford food, clothes, etc. the money he dis make from work went to a dumb business in nigeria thats not working out and never will. Mind you he’s asking ME for money. i’m 17. I I just got a job like last week. i’m talking about how I want to use my first pay check. I’m like oh I’m gonna save most (for uni and js things i wanna buy) and then use some to pay for driving lessons. Because, my dad teaching me to drive feels like hell, he doesn’t teach me anything. All he does is yell at me, threaten to beat me because idk how to do something. (js started learning how to drive mind u) and I want an actual teacher who is gonna be calm and teach me correctly. He then starts telling me that oh the first pay check goes to the parents. I’ve never heard of this. I searched it up and apparently it’s true it’s to like bless the kids? I don’t want no fucking blessings from neither of my parents especially not from him. I couldn’t care less about the fuck ass blessings he’s gonna give me, I don’t care about such a dumb culture. when I searched it up, it said that most parents don’t actually take the money, but I know mine is going to because he’s fucking BROKE. He doesn’t have shit, if he’s been asking me for fucking $10 every other day why wouldn’t he take my fucking $400+ paycheck. I quit all any afterschool activities because my father can’t provide shit. And then to top it all off he’s a fucking cheater, he asked me to take a pic of him and i accidentally clicked in the little preview in the corner of the camera app and this nga is facetiming a naked women. WHILE BROKE. YOUR KIDS ARE SUFFERING AND UR FOCUS IS OTHER WOMEM

I’m 17 and I can barely do anything in this house. I’m a slave bro I cook, clean, work, always get good grades (90%+) and yet my parents never let me do shit. I can’t wear shorts, jorts, tank tops, any shirt that isn’t a round neck, crop tops, sleeveless shirts, makeup, had to FIGHT to get my nails done and still they complain the few times i do get it done, can’t have any piercings. I’m genuinely just there 😭😭. people always say like oh you have to keep doing bad things until they give up, but my dad is crazy!!! this nga has anger issues and has literally threatened to kill me before 💔💔 it’s lowk over for me this is gonna be my life forever

GENUINELY gotta be the worst thing ever. stuck with my dad the WHOLE day, i might go crazy.

my dad will literally make me cry and then threaten to hit me if i don’t stop crying.. like huh? how does that even work? Today i was driving (js started learning..) and he’s genuinely acting like i should know EVERYTHING. He’s fucking yelling at me, screaming his lungs out and literally threatening to beat the shit out of me so ofc i’m gonna cry 🤦🏾‍♀️ And to apparently stop me from crying he says he’s gonna beat me? like okay..

My manager was asking for my availability and as i was sending it my dad js kept complaining 🤦🏾‍♀️ Talking bout “why would u be working till 8PM, that’s so late” and his reasoning is because he can’t take care of himself. He’s talking bout how i have things to do at home (cook, clean, serve him) and how i have to take care of my 14 year old brother. I’m 17 with no job, experience, and no money for uni. My dad wastes his money on some dumbass business in nigeria that isn’t even working out. I was tryna tell him that im obv not going to be working everyday and i work for a few hours, not a few days. This nga starts threatening me saying he’ll stop me from working.. MIND U he asks me for money every other day.. Even for uni, he was like “idk how that’s gonna work yada yada, idk how you’ll go to uni cuz who is gonna take care of ur brother” YOU ARE HIS PARENT!!